"Just Friends"

Breaking up is hard but what is harder and more humiliating is to be publicly humiliated.  FB that is right on fb.  First you break up then get a feeling that something is being said so you look at their profile because they are wanting to be just friends and stay best friends at that.  Then you see one of their friends is trashing you and asking if they need to hurt you because You broke his heart.  Then it is left up all day for many of people to read.  Later it is taken down but you wonder why it was even left up in the first place.  If you truly cared about that person wouldn't you delete it the first time you saw it and be like that never have been up sorry if you saw that.  I don't think that way.  Nope let's just act like it never happened and that that chick wasn't trying to show her crush for him by threatening me.  It was hurtful and degrading.  Why must people who have already hurt you continue to string you along?  If you want to be just friends then wait a while before trying it.  Don't immediately they day after be let's talk on the phone for hours and text all day.  Or even be like let's go to sonic together.  That is a load of it.  If you try that and don't have sense enough to say no you will be pulled back into the relationship you got dumped from. Things can never truly go back to how they were before.  No matter how much you wish they could.  Your past happened and that can never be rewritten.  So what is the point in trying to gloss it over or change it.  Your relationship changed when you asked and when I said yes.   You have to accept it and move on.  That is part of life.  You can't be wishy washy.  Also spend a little bit of money on gas so you can break up in person.  It takes alot more guts and shows you are a true man not a wimpy little boy.